The gift of the Tao is greater than any gift.
How can it be given?
By remaining still when others cannot control their giving;
By remaining still when others cannot control their taking.
When there are mountains, water flows away from them.
When there are valleys, water flows into them.
It is the moving stillness between man and woman that is their greatest gift to each other.
Trust the stillness.
Be still together and it will move.